Why you may lack friends ?

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 Do you have a constant feeling that you lack friends ? You may see others having huge gangs of friends following them, and may feel a bit left out. 


You may try to be friendly and outgoing, but especially if you are a natural leader, the bossy nature might come out accidently (something that's quite common with me :D !), you might not be an appealing friend to others.


If this is your case, hear me out. The friends you have are decided by the quality and not quantity.

Let me explain with the help of a short story, which I read-


A student once asked his teacher, "How many friends one must have ?"

To which his teacher replied, pointing to a mango tree," Take how many ever friends you want to grab the mango on the topmost branch."

The student gathered his friends who all formed a human pyramid, they kept on increasing the number of friends, but couldnt reach the mango.

The teacher replied," You may have these many friends, but the smartest friend would have brought a ladder to pluck the mango."


This clearly illustrates that having smart, and studious friends are more important than having carefree and careless huge volume of friends.


Another reason, why you might find yourself having only one or two friends has a very interesting reasoning. 

The friendship development is based on a pyramid structure-


You might not have friends, because you are at the top of the pyramid, where there is not enough space for you to have too many friends :) 


But when you are towards the lower areas of the pyramid, there's a lot of area to have friends.


If you don't have too many friends, after reading this article I am positive that you will not worry about the fact that you don't have friends.


There are even times, where you just might not fit in, know this, you are born to stand out!


Your friend,


Sashini


#motivational #friendship #sashinimanikandan




Comments

  1. ShreyasSeptember 19, 2022 at 4:43 PM

    True! The friend that matters the most is the one who points out your mistakes, stands by you even amidst the heavy gushing storms. Really touching

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