Tiger parenting-Proposition

 

TIGER PARENTING

 The birth of a child is also the birth of the parents. The bond they share is special; however, different methods of parenting can affect it to a great extent. Some parents choose a strict method of upbringing, while some are patient and lenient.

 

There was a boy. He was very naughty. He refused to listen to his parents, always got scolded by his teacher and physically abused his friends. His parents got very worried and went to a child psychiatrist who had asked them, “What do you do when he is refusing to listen to you?” His parents had replied, “We plead him to stop as we don’t want to raise our voice to him.” The doctor immediately said, “That’s what the problem is. Next time he refuses to listen to you, raise your voice. That’s all.” His parents agreed and over a course of a month, the same boy began scoring high and getting good remarks from his teacher. “

 

This is the magic of TIGER PARENTING. It can change the child’s life. When the parents raise his/her voice, then the child will be scared to do it again. Psychologically speaking, when the child is doing something wrong, the parents will correct them, and the child will hesitate to do the same thing again. The parents are always there to correct us, and they won’t hesitate to lead us in the right path using any means. For them, seeing their child bloom is the greatest blessing. It is they who will be the happiest when their offspring attains success, and they will be the ones who will help us when we are going down. That’s why I support TIGER PARENTING. In the future if the child is going to do something morally wrong, the blame will go to the parents not the child. The parents will suffer. For that reason alone, I believe Parents may show their harsh side to bring up their child well.

Another benefit of being brought up by TIGER PARENTS are they will be able to easily cope up with pressure, stress, and failure easily while children brought up by ELEPHANT PARENTS will find it difficult to cope up with stress later on.

Another benefit is, when the Parents compare the score of their child with his/her classmates, the child may feel low or bad, but it has been proven that Children tend to perform better next time.

Tiger moms and dads have a strong belief that strict measures are needed to make their children tough, confident, successful, and prepare them for the future.

Tiger parenting rules tend to encourage the skills of self-discipline in children. By following constant rules and orders around, children tend to understand the importance of having a disciplined life and inculcate self-discipline.

Tiger parents’ goal is to shape their children into happy, successful, and well-adjusted adults, which results in children being goal-oriented and focused.

According to me, Parents won’t do anything to hurt their child physically or mentally. It is the child who feels their parents are being cruel or unkind. It may impact their mental well being in the present, but in the future, they will be grateful for what their parents did that day. But on the other hand, children brought up with parents focusing on his/her’s present mental well-being, can turn to become a criminal later on.

I am not saying that children brought up by TIGER PARENTS will not become criminals. It is when the child and parents understand each other, the true bonding can be understood.

 

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